Changing your life is a challenge and a long-term process. It’s taking time and energy. And of course a lot of hard work. But is it worth it? Hell yeah! If you don’t grow you don’t move, and if you don’t move you are stuck in one place. One mindset. One job. A lot of problems.
Human beings are made to grow and improve. We have been doing it for ages. We are constantly changing, developing new skills, knowledge, and adapting. The world is changing like crazy right now- you need to do the same. Changes are good, changes mean that you’re learning. Don’t be afraid of them, they can only help you in becoming who you really want to be.
It’s a New Year already. So stop being your old self! Stop making the same mistakes. Stop your laziness and stop complaining about your life. It is what you’ve created. It’s all up to you. You can choose to stay in the same place that you are for years and years, OR you can start the biggest journey of your life- the journey through a self-improving process.
You asking how?
Here are some of my tips and tricks that I’m using daily to become the best version I could be. You can use it, share it, or ignore it. Once again, it’s only YOUR decision. #YouCanDoEverything2021 #Mozeszwszystko2021
Change Your Mindset.
It’s the key. You can’t change your life if you think in the same way and do the same things over and over again. You can’t change your life if you don’t open up to the world and see that it’s not what you thought it is. Life is complicated, but if you start to understand it- it would be easier for you to live. If you want to be rich- develop a rich mindset. If you want to be healthy and fit- get yourself a winner mindset. Read, listen, and talk to people about life. Learn about different points of view, cultures, and religions. Listen to smart and open-minded people. Not losers. And remember: your words and thoughts are creating your reality- so be smart with how you talk to yourself.
Learn!
Never EVER stop learning. But first of all! Forget school learning, we’ve passed on that bullsh*t already. If you really want to be smart and successful you need to gain REAL knowledge that will last a lifetime, not just from one exam to another. The world and life are so amazing and you can learn so much about them. You don’t have enough time to learn everything- so start today! Don’t waste your time, the more you know the more you have. The more you know about finances the more money you can make. The more you know about health the healthier you are. The more you know about relationships and yourself the happier you are. Learn from smart people. Don’t believe in fake news and information that you find online. You cannot grow and change without learning. If you don’t know how to cook- learn it. If you don’t know how to clean- learn it. If you don’t know how to invest your money- learn about it!
Read Books!
I know, I know, everyone is saying that. But that’s the truth. The most successful people are constantly reading. Imagine that you can gain somebody's lifetime knowledge by reading only one book. How amazing is that? And if you read you will know more words and can have better conversations. Once again, don’t read stupid books. Read books like Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki, or The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. The books that will have a real impact on your life, not just entertain you.
Take online courses.
THAT’S LIFE CHANGING I PROMISE. When I first discovered online courses that are for FREE my mind was blown away. And you can even get certificates to put in your CV and show your potential employer. My first choice when it comes to online courses is Google Digital Garage. Yes, free online courses from Google. How amazing is that? Have in mind that some courses there are paid, but most of them are for free. If you have a LinkedIn profile then you can take some courses from them, it’s called IN Learning - but you need to pay a monthly fee. If you take them you can share them on your profile right away, so that your followers can see them. And you can choose from a different variety of courses. You can learn about finances, marketing, time-management, entrepreneurship, or sales. You can learn everything online.
Watch smart videos on Youtube.
I don’t mean funny cats and dogs or Youtubers challenges- cause that to be honest is a waste of your time. Entertainment is good and important too, but not all the time. Be aware of who you’re watching, there are a lot of fake people that only want to trick you and only make money. Choose wisely. The accounts I would recommend and I’m watching daily are Alux.com , Mark Tilbury, TedX Talks, and Lavendaire. Check them out and let me know if you know any other channel that is real and professional.
Plan and organize.
Do I even need to mention how important it is that you plan and organize your life and your time? You can either live day by day and take what the world is giving OR you can tell the world what it is that you exactly need and want. You don’t have a lot of time on this Earth so better plan it wisely. You won’t get a second chance, so you need to use the one you have to make the best life for yourself and your family.
Write a letter to yourself.
I love the whole concept of that, it’s the most refreshing and calming thing that I’m doing. Imagine yourself 10 years ago. How were you like, what did you do, what were your fears, your passions, your goals. How did you see the world and people? Imagine yourself in the worst situation you had. What advice could help you then? What did you do when you were broke, destroyed, and thought life was over? Write a letter to that kid! Help him/her to become better, to feel better, and to act better. Help your old self so that your present self feels free. End some chapters. Get everything out of your head. Clean your mind with your past and your future will thank you for that.
Don’t give up.
I know it’s hard! Trust me I do. That’s why I know how important self-motivation is. If you don’t motivate yourself you will definitely lose. You can’t do anything if you're under-motivated or sad. You need to keep going and keep focusing on what you really want. Don’t ever give up on yourself, your dreams, goals, and desires, no matter how hard it is, no matter how tired you are. Think about the price and have it in your mind always.
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